Wednesday, October 27, 2010

FAQ's - How Many And Which Women Masturbate

I undertook a survey to find out who masturbated. Please take into consideration people had to find my website and that those that did were probably more likely to masturbate than the normal because of the content. I still think the results are relevant and I decided to split the results into different age groups for further relevance.

The results took on further relevance when they are split up into age groups and the results are listed below.
Age Group=%of women who masturbate

Under 16=65
17-19=71
20-24=73
25-34=75
35-43=63
44-50=60
51-57=45
58-64=30
65+=25

The survey included results collected from a range of women from the differing age groups. The survey was collated by the 2168 women who were kind enough to answer the survey honestly and with great openness.
The survey makes for very interesting reading and shows that for many women that masturbation is the norm and not the exception.

The highest age group that admits to masturbation are those in the 20-24 year old age range can be explained through a period of experimentation and self-discovery of their own bodies. Masturbation is the best way for these ladies to learn what they need to gain the most pleasure from their own bodies. These women have had several sexual partners and now sexualized want to work out what really works for them and are happy in their own selves to feel liberated enough to self-love.

The main reason for the downturn in numbers after the 20-24 year old age range can be attested to having children. Many women who answered the survey explain this to giving birth. Women explained that they had trouble getting back their sex drive in general after they gave birth with many ladies explaining they simply didn't feel like sex or masturbation for reason both mental and physical or simply through a lack of time or privacy once kids were factored into the equation.

In the next question in the survey women were asked whether they owned a sex toy to aid to their sex life or simply for self pleasure again the survey was split into separate ages for more understanding. Here are the results.

Age Group=%of women who own sex toy

Under 16=20
17-19=34
20-24=41
25-34=58
35-43=49
44-50=47
51-57=38
58-64=29
65+=19

It appears that many women have a sex toy of some sort or other with most women explaining that for the most part they had a dildos but also Ben-Wa-Balls and beads as well. It also became apparent that many young women like to carry a dildo around them at all times in case of emergency use wherever they go.

From the survey and subsequent questions it was obvious that the use of sex toys were on the rise and many women owned more than one type of sex toy so that they could gain various sensations from the different sizes, shapes, materials and items that allows women to find what they need to please them.

These toys aren't just used for self pleasuring and are now used by many people as part of their love-making routine.

The reasons being the empowerment of woman which has led these ladies not to only know what they want in the bedroom but also how they can best achieve the satisfaction they want. In recent surveys it has been found that less than 38% of women can achieve an orgasm through penetration only. The majority of women need multiple stimuli to reach fulfillment.

It is through masturbation and self-discovery through the use of sex toys that women are now understanding through experimentation how best to reach orgasm. This then can then be related to the women's partners who can then through sympathetic love-making help achieve the needs of each individual within the couple to accomplish a hedonistic and satisfying conclusion to sexual interaction.

Masturbation allows a woman to find whether she prefers clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration or G-Spot stimulation as the best way for her to reach an orgasm. It would also allow a lady to understand the pressure she needs or whether she has stroked or be touched and also if she can stand actual touching of her clitoris as for some ladies it can be too painful to have direct pressure on this part of their genitals.

In conclusion masturbation is practiced by the majority of women who will use any methods to gain what they want. I think the revolution has really been one that has allowed women to overcome many barriers and even allows ladies in certain situations to really feel in control not of their own bodies but their own destinies too.

 By John Helios

Self pleasure for women is a website set up by Holly Franklin to be a self pleasure resource for women. Holly's new website offers articles on the how to use a dildo for women and couples.

Different Views Of Masturbation - A Natural Phenomenon?

Every single one of us experiences life in a unique fashion, but masturbation seems to be a common phenomenon inherent in almost all growing up and grownup individuals. Although masturbation is not encouraged or taught to children by adults, most people will have a personal experience of masturbation in their life time, either through self discovery or pair pressure influence.

The idea behind this article, therefore, is to throw light on masturbation which, by the way, is a behavioral attitude that occurs without warning, and which, in spite of the experience of adults in the same issue, is always treated with righteous anger in most societies.

However, sexual gratification is a self-indulgent need so private that decision to satisfy it is usually personal. Even children fondle their genitals without the informed intention of achieving orgasm, yet, the awareness that the action is pleasurable is, without doubt, fuelled by sexual urge.

Although a school of thought believes that if a child suddenly finds out the sexual uses for which it can put its genitals, it should not be seen as an abnormality but just as a mere curiosity on the part of the child, and that only a subtle effort should be made to distract the child away from such a behavior.

But another school of thought is of the opinion that masturbation is a natural aspect of growing up, which if scuttled by family interference will manifest in some peculiar or negative sexual behavior in the future. This school of thought advices that should a child ask questions as to the rightness or otherwise of masturbation, answers should be given in such a way that the child is left to decide whether to masturbate or not. This scenario is not common since most children while masturbating in utmost secrecy, will dare not bring up the issue with their parents or guardians.

Societal Differences:
Do you know that psychologists have since documented evidences to the effect that children whose childhood sexual experiences were denied or hampered usually grow up to suffer what is called Frustrated sexual exuberance. Could this be the reason why some old adults can be seen chasing girls young enough to be their grandchildren for sex? Or is it to counter this behaviour that some societies in Asia and Oceania, according to anthropologists, see it as culturally right for grownups and even mothers to fondle the genitals of their own children and those of minor relatives without anyone raising an eyebrow?

Consider, therefore other societies where making a child aware of their genitals would surely turn out to be a problem, because even the mention of genitals are frowned at, and any noticeable sexual urges in children is viewed grossly.

All said, if you catch your child masturbating, it is better not to make it look gross, rather gently tell it not to make masturbation a habit. Nonetheless, in 90% of cases you won't catch your child doing masturbation, although it most likely does.

By Charles Neshah

Neshah writes for your pleasure. He recommends Sexual Mastery, Erotic Tips, Approach And Win Women for true sexual guide to sexual bliss.

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